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Add/adhd
Most people have some degree of ADD that causes the mind to go blank in some situations and to cause difficulty concentrating in other situations. AD... read more
Being Yourself
All of us are trained out of being ourselves in childhood. The training happens when we are being ourselves in ways that are obnoxious to adults or o... read more
Changing
Change comes with difficulty for good reason. We need stable personalities.Resistance to change comes from childhood when change was forced upon us m... read more
Intimacy
We are now ready for the final level of relating - closeness. Relating starts with non-verbal expression such as a smile, moves to the greeting that ... read more
Humor
We're ready to talk about the fifth level of relating, humor. In the last four articles we've talked about improving the initial non-verbal contact, ... read more
Cooperation
We’re ready to talk about the fourth level of relating, cooperation. we have talked about improving the initial non-verbal contact, the greeting and... read more
Conversation in Relating
After the initial smile and the greeting the encounter goes on to conversation. The unspoken message in conversation is “I am interested in you.” ... read more
Greeting - The Second Level Of Interaction
Remember the six levels of interaction? They are non-verbal contact, greeting, interaction, cooperation, play and closeness, in that order. Birth Orde... read more
Relating - The Initial Contact
Relationships are created in the course of many encounters. These encounters have six levels of interaction to them. By improving the encounters that ... read more
Revealing Hidden Intelligence
Each of the Birth Orders has its own way of thinking. Onlies organize, First Borns research, Second Borns evaluate, Third Borns compare and Fourth Bo... read more
