Introduction

Birth Order is to personality what the skeleton is to the body. Birth Order gives shape to the personality, supports the personality and is hidden within the personality.

Birth Order in personality enables an understanding of relationships, behavior and emotions. Birth Order psychotherapy goes beyond the surface to harmonize relationships, improve behaviors and heal emotions. In this blog we give you Birth Order psychotherapy in the form of things you can say to yourself.

Psychotherapy is warranted at different times in life. Marriage counseling is most often needed between the ages of 35 and 45. During those years stresses build up as children become teenagers, husbands and wives go through their midlife transitions and their parents become more dependent on them. Being able to draw on Birth Order strengths becomes vital in such times.

Career counseling often becomes necessary as people get past 45 when post-midlife attitudes make them dissatisfied but unable to determine what they want to do. Birth Order can help determine a comfortable fit in a career change.

Psychotherapy for emotional issues is most often needed around ages 16, 26-28 and 38-42. These life passages often bring people into conflict with each other, force them to make changes and create strong emotions.

Traumatic life experiences, difficult relationships and unusual stresses can create an urgent need for psychotherapy. Physical pain that results from suppressed emotional pain calls for counseling. Sometimes counseling also helps alleviate certain illnesses that have subconscious emotional involvement.

Birth Order psychotherapy recognizes that we all live from memories that enable us to function. However, there are also memories that cause problem behaviors. With our therapy we enable your subconscious to disconnect from problem memories to set you free from compulsive behaviors. By so doing we enable you to improve how you feel, think and interact with others.

You will catch on to how this works as we get into therapy. Meanwhile, realize that there is another site that does the same kind of therapy. You'll find it at http://psychovirus.blogspot.com/. The author, Mike Tolles, is a friend with whom I have figured out many of the therapies we use.

Mike and I come from different orientations. Mike is oriented toward the world having been a teacher, pastor, business executive and a psychotherapist. I am oriented toward family issues working as a pastor, coming from a family of eight children and being the parent of five children with my wife of 52 years, Kathy. I am 71 and Mike is 48.

Get ready to experience spontaneous changes as your subconscious is programmed to make them! If you want personal counseling Mike or I can do that over the phone. Send either of us an email to start the process.

Counseling by phone has certain advantages. You do it in the privacy of your own home, your anonymity is protected and it may be more effective without the distractions of a counselor's office. Phone counseling gives you power that you would not have in the office. Phone counseling has been found to be successful.